Its taken time for me to just be happy with where I am in my life. No matter where I thought I would be at a given time I have to accept where I am in this moment and be happy with it. I accept the good, bad, and the ugly moments that have happened in my life. If it were not for them I would not be where I am today. I believe all things work together for my good. I decided to start today and develop a new mindset on my own. Accept thyself for where I am today: unapologetically. The thing we all have to do in life is accept who we are and not look for validation from others. Whether it be from a man, woman, or family, the only person who really needs to be okay with you is you. Be happy in the skin you are in.

In accepting myself I decided to be more mindful of what I am doing with my time. I have decided to use a schedule and carve out time where I am pampering myself, working, or even relaxing, just enough to where I feel I have the balance that is tailored to my needs. I am the only one who has to be okay with this. I am the boss of me. It does not matter what anyone has to say about what I do with my time. Just as long as I am happy with me and what I am doing with my time.

In accepting myself, I decided to be happy where I am right now not owning a home or even having a family. Its okay to not have those things, I said to myself. No matter how the world tries to make me feel for not having those things; I’m happy accepting where I am in this life. I am focusing on the things I do have, my health, strength, and my life. With those three things I’m going to use them to the best of my ability. As always I want to thank the readers who took the time out to read my blog. Thank you for your time.